PeopleMy Partner Is Trans & I’m 40 — Here’s How We Got Pregnantshare My Partner Is Trans & I’m 40 – Here’s How We Got PregnantWelcome to Refinery29’s Fertility Diaries, where people chronicle their joyous, painful, and sometimes complicated paths to parenthood. Have your own Fertility Diary to share? Contact us, . I’m a queer, cisgender female, and my partner is a 31-year-old, queer, transgender man. We talked about wanting a baby early on in our relationship, but we knew there would be challenges.