Metro‘Geriatric pregnancy’, ‘missed miscarriage’, ‘habitual aborter’: Why does medical language shame women?share Why does medical language shame women?Imagine the scene: after many months of pregnancy, you’ve been in labour for days. You’re shattered. You’re concerned about your as-yet-unborn child and trying to muster energy for the next contraction – when you hear the midwife or doctor mutter something about ‘poor maternal effort’.